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Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Truths and Reality

One of our basic need is Partner in life.. Some of us can't live in this world without a partner, without someone to love.. But once we suffer pain from someone, the word PARTNER dont exist..
I've been through all this.. i suffered pain, so much pain from my 1st and 2nd love.. i cried so many times, every minute every hour.. that time i felt so down and nothing.. that time i felt so useless.. i dont eat, i dont socialize, i dont talk either, i just cried.. I blamed myself, what's wrong about me, where did i go wrong, did my love doesnt enough to make him stay.. during my depression stage, naisip ko na its better to die rather than to suffer so much pain.. coz when i died tpos na lhat.. super stressed.. grabe.. kpag nsa sasakyan me, then naalala ko xa, bigla na lang me malulungkot na namn then tears started to falling down.. i cant get through it..! gusto kong sumigaw, umiyak ng bongang bongga.. kpag nakikita ko mga pix nmn naiiyak na namn ako, kpg naalala ko mga memories we shared, iiyak nnmn ako.. grabe so much pain... pati family ko hnd na ako kyang tulungan dhil they dont know what pain i suffering.. they can only say hnd lang sya lalaki and hnd xa deserving for ur love.. how can i find other love if my life is broken..

But when days, months passing by.. i realized something.. "TIME CAN HEAL.."

For all those things i suffered before, i realized yung buhay ko hnd lang umiikot sa kanya.. now everytime na naiisip ko yung mga ngyari dati natatawa lng ako.. super tanga ko pla.. i've learned a lot.. that when it comes to love,, everything should be balance and love urself first before others..

Guys, for those who suffering pain now from failed relationship,, CHEER UP..!!! marami pa dyan.. yeah i know super depressed kau, parang ayaw nyo na mainlove ulit.. but life is too short.. enjoy each day, every moment of ur life.. now lang yan pain kc fresh pa but when the time comes, little by little maaccept mo rin lhat, mggng ok ka rin.. advise ko lang sa inyo, kung gusto mong umiyak umiyak ka, kung gusto mong sumigaw shout..!!! best therapy din yun ishare mo sa iba prob mo wag mo solohin or kung nahihiya ka, get a piece of paper, isulat mo lhat ng pain, mga nararamdaman mo then sunugin mo or keep it..

STAGE OF MOVING ON..:

D - ENIAL ( u'r in denial, ayaw u pa rin accept or isipin na there's something wrong..)
A - NGER ( galit ka sa knya..)
B - ARGAINING ( iniisip mo na sna hnd na lan ngyari or sana hnd mo na xa minahal..)
D - EPRESSION ( cry, stressed, depressed..)
A - CCEPTANCE ( accept the truth that u'r not meant to be..)

SO GUYS ALWAYS REMEMBER IF U ARE MEANT TO BE MGIGING KAU IN THE END NO MATTER WHAT HAPPEN.. LOVE YOU ALL.. MWAHUGS..

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